Nobody likes to “be persuaded”… And yet, many people start their conversations from a position of “getting them to change their mind”…
People have an intrinsic tendency to Explore new things, new ideas… But, when somebody feels that you are “pushing”, they will instinctively resist and push back.
If you want them to even consider what you have to say, the best thing you can do is to create the condtions for them to open up and become receptive…
Connection implies Respect for other people’s sense of Reality, without any judgment (i.e., I am right and you are wrong…)
Question:
How good are you in ‘persuading yourself first’ to hold on to this Experience of Connection, regardless of what they might say or do in the moment?
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